The Library
The books behind the guides.
Every guide is built from these books and cites them per claim. Here they are on their own — what each argues, the ideas it contributes, and the guides it grounds. 21 books.
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The Library
Every guide is built from these books and cites them per claim. Here they are on their own — what each argues, the ideas it contributes, and the guides it grounds. 21 books.
21 of 21 books
A warm, humorous, illustrated children's book that explains sex, conception, pregnancy, and birth honestly and age-appropriately without embarrassment.
By analyzing a massive, anonymous dataset of internet pornography searches and erotic stories, two neuroscientists reveal the fundamental, evolutionarily-driven differences between the sexual desires of men and women.
A comprehensive, humorous, and practical guide to human sexuality that demystifies everything from anatomy and technique to relationships and consent, empowering readers to have a more confident, pleasurable, and connected sex life.
A self-help program that reframes premature ejaculation as an emotionally driven, learnable habit and teaches men a staged system of relaxation, visualization, PC-muscle training, and arousal-awareness exercises to gain conscious control over ejaculation.
A practical sex guide for men explaining the mechanics of female arousal and orgasm, providing specific techniques and positions to ensure their partner achieves single and multiple climaxes.
A critical examination of modern consent culture, arguing that its emphasis on perfect self-knowledge and enthusiastic speech places an impossible burden on women, and that a better sexual ethics must embrace desire's uncertainty and our shared human vulnerability.
A comprehensive, illustrated, and reassuring guide for pre-teens and adolescents on puberty, sex, and sexual health, designed to provide accurate information and foster responsible decision-making.
A collection of anonymous essays by women about their personal experiences with orgasm, pleasure, sex, and communication, aiming to destigmatize the topic and empower readers.
A modern guide to the ancient Kama Sutra, teaching couples how to enhance passion, pleasure, and intimacy by exploring erotic arts, positions, and pleasure-enhancing techniques beyond the purely physical.
A comprehensive medical textbook that details the etiology, classification, diagnosis, and treatment of premature ejaculation, aiming to medicalize the symptom and provide a state-of-the-art overview for clinicians.
A girlfriend-to-girlfriend guide that empowers women with explicit, step-by-step sexual techniques to boost their confidence, intensify pleasure for themselves and their partners, and deepen relational intimacy.
A practical guide for women and their partners on how to find and stimulate the G-spot to unlock powerful, full-body orgasms and achieve the ecstatic release of female ejaculation.
An interdisciplinary textbook that explores human sexuality through a sex-positive, inclusive lens, emphasizing open communication and self-acceptance to empower readers to understand themselves and the diversity of human sexual expression.
A sex educator uses the latest science, particularly the dual-control model of sexual response, to explain that all variations of female sexuality are normal and that understanding one's personal 'brakes' and 'accelerator' in different contexts is the key to a confident and joyful sex life.
A provocative, interdisciplinary investigation arguing that female infidelity is not a modern pathology but a natural, evolutionarily-adaptive behavior that challenges deeply ingrained cultural myths about female sexuality.
A comprehensive, evidence-based guide by an OB/GYN that debunks harmful myths and empowers women with accurate medical knowledge about the vulva and vagina for better health, pleasure, and self-advocacy.
A comprehensive guide for therapists on integrating diverse therapeutic approaches—from somatic experiencing and art therapy to nutritional counseling and intersectional awareness—into sex and couples therapy to provide holistic and effective care for modern relationships.
An exploration of the psychology of arousal, this book argues that sexual passion is not simply a natural function but a complex and paradoxical interplay of attraction, obstacles, personal history, and emotions.
A comprehensive guide for individuals and couples to understand the addictive power of modern pornography, escape its destructive trap, and heal their lives, relationships, and sexuality.
A wide-ranging, sex-positive guide that reframes female orgasm as a diverse, learnable, and deeply personal experience rather than a single standard to be measured against.
An evolutionary biologist explains why human sexuality—concealed ovulation, recreational sex, female menopause, coparenting, and body signals—is bizarre by animal standards and how those oddities were shaped by natural selection acting on the conflicting reproductive interests of men and women.