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The New Naked The Ultimate Sex Education for Grown-Ups
A urologist argues that lasting sexual satisfaction depends not on mechanical fixes like Viagra but on treating sex as a learnable skill and building emotional intimacy through better communication.
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What it’s about
Written by renowned urologist and men's-health expert Dr. Harry Fisch, The New Naked is a candid, no-nonsense 'sex education for grown-ups' that treats a couple's sex life as the dipstick of their overall relationship health. Aimed primarily at women so they can help the men in their lives, the book blends medical fact (about erections, testosterone, premature ejaculation, masturbation, weight, sleep, and porn) with a practical communication framework called LSD—Listening, Security, and Desire. Fisch demystifies common sexual dysfunctions, debunks myths, warns about porn and sex addiction, and shows that emotional and sexual satisfaction reinforce each other. The result is a hopeful, actionable roadmap for couples who want more sex, better sex, and a happier, more intimate relationship.
The through-line
- Who it’s for
- A woman (and by extension her partner) who wants a satisfying, loving, lasting sexual relationship.
- The problem
- Unsatisfying, infrequent, or dysfunctional sex and an inability to talk about it. Feeling frustrated, undesirable, ashamed, guilty, or hopeless about their sex life and relationship.
- The plan
- Learn accurate sex education for adults: what's normal and what can go wrong.
- Identify and treat physical causes of dysfunction (testosterone, weight, sleep, ejaculation issues).
- Curb harmful habits like chronic masturbation, porn overuse, and neglecting health.
- Master the LSD system: Listen, provide Security, and express Desire.
- Communicate needs clearly, briefly, and positively, and act on desires daily.
- The payoff
- Regular, mutually satisfying, uninhibited sex · A trusting, secure, intimate relationship · Both partners feel heard, loved, and desired
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Additional reading
- The Male Biological Clock: The Startling News about Aging, Sexuality, and Fertility in Men · Harry Fisch, MD
This is the author's previous book, offering a deeper medical dive into male aging and fertility, topics that are foundational to the advice in 'The New Naked'.
- Size Matters: The Hard Facts about Male Sexuality That Every Woman Should Know · Harry Fisch, MD
The author's other book, which focuses specifically on male anatomy and penis size, providing more detail on subjects discussed in Lesson 3.
- Is He Cheating on You? 829 Telltale Signs · Ruth Houston
The book cites Houston as an expert on infidelity and her work provides an external perspective on the motivations behind cheating, a key risk discussed in Lesson 4.